Advice for a potential FWB (2025)

Hi guys,

I was chatting to a girl on Tik Tok, who lives not far away from me. She said she was looking to get laid, and she gave me her home address, and she wants me to come around.

I'm a bit hesitant with this. I'd prefer to meet her in a neutral location first, as I feel uncomfortable turning up to an address, not knowing what I'm walking into.

What do you guys think? Advice?

AmsterdamAssassin said:

DAMHIK, but these is how organ harvesters operate. Although at 47y you're a bit long in the tooth for 'donating'. Do you pretend to be younger on TikTok?

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No, if asked, I tell people my age.

Agamemnon43 said:

Someone please screenshot this for a potential evidence in a case. I've seen too many true crime videos not to be suspicious.

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Yeah, hence my query! I think I'm going to suggest meeting at a neutral venue, such as a bar. If she seems cool, yeah, then I'll suggest heading back to her place to bang.

DarwinTaurus said:

Yeah, hence my query! I think I'm going to suggest meeting at a neutral venue, such as a bar. If she seems cool, yeah, then I'll suggest heading back to her place to bang.

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Meet up with her at a bar first and take her to a hotel/motel for the first time.

DarwinTaurus said:

Hi guys,

I was chatting to a girl on Tik Tok, who lives not far away from me. She said she was looking to get laid, and she gave me her home address, and she wants me to come around.

I'm a bit hesitant with this. I'd prefer to meet her in a neutral location first, as I feel uncomfortable turning up to an address, not knowing what I'm walking into.

What do you guys think? Advice?

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Meet in a public place.

AmsterdamAssassin said:

Is this your expertise talking?

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Hi Amsterdam,
Humour aside,actually it is.....Twenty odd years ago my middle Son was diagnosed with Bone Marrow Leukemia (AML).The Medicos talked of a Bone Marrow Transplant,they had a perfect donor in Perth,2000+miles away....What a Palaver it would have been,synchronised operations with specially equipped Ambulances each end.

UPDATE: I was tempted to go around to her place last Friday, but I went with my gut feeling, decided no, and ended up blocking her on TikTok and Telegram.

I've come to the conclusion that anyone who contacts you on TikTok who isn't someone you personally know, is a scammer. I've had people ask me for money, which results in a simple block.

But for the others that don't ask for money, what is their agenda? What is the point? I've come across 10 women in the last week or so, who I've easily worked out isn't who they say they are. All it takes is a simple Google Image Search.

AmsterdamAssassin said:

99% of the strangers who approach you through social media are scammers or attention/validation seekers.

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I don't understand how people get attention/validation when they are using photo's of other people, which really, is the definition of catfishing.

BillyPilgrim said:

WTF OP do a google maps street view search and then drive by to check it out. You live in a small town, this should be a no-brainer.

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Trust me, I did check out the property on street view. I work in I.T, so I use all the obvious tools at my disposal. That's why Google Image search is fantastic also. I didn't drive past, as I currently don't own a car.